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Subject: Coping with grief
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jakimc 23.03.10 - 02:08pm
hi im new 2 this group bt im hopin sum1 can help me out, if ne1 is willin 2 hear my problem plz reply n i'll tell u more, i dunno whether just a chat will help me feel better or i mite need more specific advice bt its all 2 do with grief n copin, thnx *
dj_sam 23.03.10 - 02:22pm
hi jakimc, thanks fOr jOining Our advice grOup, pls state yOur prOblem here n we wOuld certainly help yOu sOrt them fOr you... gOOd luck... 
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jakimc 23.03.10 - 06:15pm
thnx 4 the welcome djsam, 1st i apologise if my story is a bit long bt im givin u the background 2 my problem... ok... my dad was a massive fan of formula 1 n as a kid i used 2 watch it with him all the time, then as i got older i got in2 different stuff bt still watched the odd race... then i saw the 1 on 1st may 1994 when ayrton senna was killed n i was absolutely gutted, he was my hero n i was obssessed with him bt time moves on n i came to terms with his death n slowly stopped watchin the races... then a few yrs ago my dad died n i kinda got in2 watchin it again, it brought bk gd memories of my dad... over the last 2/3 yrs i've become totally obssessed again n focused a lot on books of sennas life, watched dvds of him racin n bought loads of memorabillia etc... then on 21st march, which would've been his 50th bday i hit major depression, cant concentrate, feel like n basically totally p155ed off... it sounds stupid now im sayin it bt i just cant get over sennas death, its nearly 16 yrs ago ffs n it feels like its just happened... i've never been this depressed b4 about ne thing n im sick of feelin like this... im sorry 4 soundin deranged bt maybe i just needed to get it out, u no? ne way thats me done... *
rahma_08 23.03.10 - 10:21pm
I'm very sory ma dear,the 1st n foremst thng is tht u should accept thngs the way they c*m in life!each 1 of us has hs own life n whteva hapen's 2 us is part of life also...i gues u should stand firm and try 2 4get bou the past... *
rahma_08 23.03.10 - 10:41pm
Whateva i'm tryng 2 tel u is tht u should nt ruin ur life wid ur past memory,u hav 2 be strong enough 2 n focus n ur future hun!good luck *
jakimc 23.03.10 - 10:48pm
ur rite i no... i tell myself the same things... i suppose it all just feels awful @ the mo n the feeling will pass, i keep tellin myself that time will heal... bt like i said its been 16 yrs... maybe these feelings will come n go thru my life n i just have 2 get on with it... its so unfair that ppl die young tho... *
rahma_08 23.03.10 - 11:03pm
Yeah sumtyms life is so unfair,bt if we believ evrythng is planed by God then we wil be able 2 overc*m such situatn dear! *
jakimc 23.03.10 - 11:15pm
i'll b honest - religion confuses me... i dont no wot 2 believe sumtimes... do u believe its all Gods plan rahma? *
rahma_08 23.03.10 - 11:27pm
I do believe tht evrythng is planed by God!thats is anothr life challenge,do believ in God and evrythng in life wil be smooth no matter wht religion u c*mng frm *
winxxx 24.03.10 - 02:54am
G0d has a reas0n for allowing things to happen...WE MAY nvr undrstand HIS wisd0m bt we simply have to trust His Will.....G0D BLESS!!! *
rahma_08 24.03.10 - 03:22am
u ryt winx x x *
dj_sam 24.03.10 - 12:23pm
d0nt w0ri hun @ jacki... my members n m0derat0rs w0uld advise u n i w0uld try best t0 advice u n try t0 s0rt 0ut ur pr0blems na.... 
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jakimc 24.03.10 - 12:37pm
thank u every1 
im feelin a little better 2day so i think the chat helped... i thought about ur comments n while i accept that ppl can use their faith in God 2 help them thru their problems i find it better 2 talk 2 friends... sumtimes only talkin can help 2 all x *
dj_sam 24.03.10 - 01:15pm
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rahma_08 24.03.10 - 01:28pm
Its gud 2 talk whnevr u in stress,its realy helps!we wil always b here 4 thse in prblm dear..
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dj_sam 24.03.10 - 03:01pm
O yeah yOu are right @ rahma... 
mwah... 
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